Talk to a Woman, Capture Her Interest In You

Yes indeed, it can be difficult when deciding what to talk about as you first set your sights on a woman, especially at a public establishment because you don't have any connection to her. Where as when you’re at a house party, it’s easy to say, “So what’s your connection here?” You may both know the host. That’s why you often have to produce a relationship with a female through conversation.

Oftentimes when we decide to approach one girl in particular, our inner “Chatterbox” gets in the way. All you hear are voices like, “Oh, she won’t talk to me,” or “I’m too boring,” or, “What should I talk about?”

Here are five topics that are ripe for interesting conversation. This may induce a date, more excitement and who knows, you might attract a beautiful woman. The key in all of these is to be genuine.

Your Dreams

Allow the girl you're talking to know that you have dreams for a better future. Don’t make them up be honest.

If your dream is nothing more than to build a nice home with a couple of horses in the country, tell her that. But do it with a passion. Let her know that you’re an enthusiastic person. Females enjoy going on adventures. If you let her know that you’re on one, she’ll want to come along for the ride!

Funny Stories

Rather than talking all about yourself, present something interesting in the form of a story. Ask the women you are talking to, “Would you like to hear something funny?” Of course she will. So tell her a funny story about some event or escapade you were involved in the past. Humor is a great aphrodisiac. It’s been proven to be tops when it comes to traits that girls look for in a guy. So give it to them!

Ponderous statements can be entreating such as... At income tax time, did you ever notice: When you put the two words "The" and "IRS" together it spells ... "THEIRS"?

Focus on Her

Yes indeed, can’t emphasize enough how important this is. Focus by listening to her and look into her eyes. Ask questions about her dreams and her plans to achieve the goals she has set. She’ll become a lot more interested in you if you show an interest in her by actively hearing "attentively" what she is saying. If you listen closely, you'll never run out of material to talk about.

Playful Teasing

Most girls love teasing in a playful fashion. So the way you talk and the way you move are good ways to get her excited about passion. For instance, if you’re playing pool, nothing quite conveys sexual tension like moving behind her and showing her how to shoot.

Sexual Innuendo

No, you don’t want to talk directly about how much you love it, or about how great sex was with your last partner but sexual innuendo is dandy. As one relationship guru brilliantly said, “Talking about sex is the first step towards having it.”

Ask her if she’s a bad girl or what’s the most intensely enthusiastic thing she’s ever done in her life. With a bit of innuendo added into your voice. She’ll probably know what you mean and possibly get excited thinking about it.

As you follow through with these five topics of conversation, I'm absolutely sure that you'll have the ability to talk with a woman without the worry of running out of things to talk about. In time and with practice you'll also have the woman sitting on the edge of her seat with interest.

Would you like to know the 5 subjects you should avoid like the plague when talking to women?

MJ.

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