Pickup Lines, Last Hope for the Dire Straights

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Let’s talk about pickup lines when used to attract women. They don’t work and you know why? Because they’re foreseeable and ordinary, the type of stuff women do not want from guys. When you feed a generic pickup line to a woman, you’re communicating that you’re the same as every other guy out there. This is not what you want. What women want are excitement, spontaneity and they love surprise. They're also attracted to someone who is genuine.

What's more, when you’re talking to a girl don’t sound as if you’re copying someone’s lines. Talk as if you just noticed her. Oh, don't forget to be open and honest. She or one of her friends will see right through you if you pretend to be someone you’re not.

Try using open body language, look relaxed but not lazy. A leaned-back body may look cool but reverberates "lazyness" (slouch). Maintain good posture (straight back) with open arms and legs. Direct eye contact is also crucial, looking down or away while talking won't fly. It gives an impression of one who can't be trusted.

Most of all, if you’re able to shock her with surprise then you’ll really get her attention. Something along the lines of... "In case I forget to tell you later, I had a really good time tonight." Or if you have a third nipple, ask her if she wants to see it, lol.